Skip to main content

#29 - write in a journal weekly for six months (8/27)

(prompt from here)

A place you’ve traveled to and where else you want to travel.

When I first moved to Florida, I mentioned to someone that I had lived in four states.  She responded (sounding surprised) with, "Wow, I didn't realize you had lived in so many places!"

Her reply caught me off guard, probably because I'm pretty sure I've moved the least out of all the other military families I know, so I don't consider four states "so many places." But because we moved between South Carolina to Virginia four times before I started college, it feels weird to consider staying put in any one place, especially since we've really got our fingers crossed for some extended quality time with Florida.  I consider living in one place for more than five years a seriously long-term commitment.  How do I get people to stay friends with me for that long?  Do I have to address embarrassments instead of hiding behind the knowledge that I'll be leaving them behind soon?  Should I be scared at the prospect of gradual change instead of sudden self-reinvention with every move?

Basically, I'm not sure I know how to live this long-term lifestyle.

I think what I'm most afraid of is stagnation.  I don't want to be the same person, living in the same place, seeing the same sights, eating at the same restaurants, forever.  I don't want my kids to grow up only experiencing one place.  I don't want to be suffocated by sameness.

And yet, I want the house and the yard and the familiar neighbors and the never having to unpack a box EVER AGAIN.  So what's a girl with long-term cabin fever to do? 

Travel, that's what.  Before I got married, I traipsed around England as a giddy schoolgirl, and knew I just had to marry someone who loved exploring new places as much as I did.  Ricky and I are all about spending less money on things and more money on experiences.  (Not to say that I don't whine furiously over wanting the latest and greatest toy or a new piece of furniture, only to be reminded of whatever trip we're trying to save for.  Ricky's better at this game than I am.)  Since we've been married, we've explored:

Palmyra, NY and Lake Ontario
Niagara Falls (we both have the WORST haircuts in these pictures!)
Civil War battlegrounds (Battle of Wilderness pictured here--fall in VA, I miss you!)
Appomattox (not just the gift shop)
Baltimore (featuring creepy overpass)
Washington, DC
Costa Rica (twice!)
Monticello
Philadelphia
Salt Lake City (SO. COLD.) and Idaho (not pictured)

Charleston (notice I am looking significantly classier here than anywhere else, because Chas. is a classy place)
(Another Charleston picture, because Cypress Gardens is dang beautiful and because Ricky's face is hilarious.)
Sarasota (shout-out to Lizbeth, with whom I have zero pictures on this trip)
Disney World (about a dozen times)
Titusville/Cape Canaveral (still the best day of my life, honestly)
Miami
NYC (suspiciously similar to the Baltimore picture, but BETTER)
Boston
Tampa (featuring Ricky's hand and some lettuce)
and San Diego (Katie solo trip)
One of these days we're going to visit the midwest...maybe.  (I've got my eye on Chicago, but I think Ricky's wary.)  I'm also itching to visit Memphis, and I REALLY want to go to New Orleans!  (Those two aren't to be confused with the midwest, of course.)  Before we make any more big stateside trips, though, I'd like to take Ricky back to Portugal so he can give me the awesome, I-was-a-poor-missionary-here tour.  And so I can see castles!  One day...

Is it bad that 50% of me already wants to live here?















Comments

  1. Pennilesspo8October 9, 2012 at 12:25 PM

    I'm trying to get Thomas to get into the whole save-up-so-we-can-travel mindset, but it's not working yet.I think you already know I'm jealous of your travels.

    (BTW, our weekend and Monday ended up being crazy busy, so maybe we can try for this week/weekend?)

    ReplyDelete
  2. AnonymousOctober 10, 2012 at 4:17 PM

    Look at all those places you guys have been! Portugal looks beautiful. Take lots of pictures when you go, so I can live vicariously through them. You and Ricky should totally go to England and help me pick out graduate schools. I will have to go for interviews anyways and who better to help me decide!

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

#29 - write in a journal weekly for six months (1/27)

Ok, blogosphere.  It's time to get serious.  One of the items on my list is keeping a weekly journal for six months, and since I'm getting dangerously close to not having six months left in those 999 days, I better start now.  I'd much prefer to keep a paper journal, but it takes so long to hand-write things.  (First world problems, right?)  So here we are. I'll be pulling prompts from this website whenever I get stuck...so, basically all the time.  I really struggle with blogging because I'm too worried about how I come across to the people reading it, and that distracts me from writing about real things like how I really want to play a Dungeons and Dragons game (I'm serious, you guys) and how I may or may not have left a load of laundry in the washing machine for two days and am writing this to avoid dealing with it.  First up is something eerily similar to those Livejournal/Facebook "fill this out about yourself" lists, so consider this m...
8 comments
Read more

$4 - read Atlas Shrugged

(The dollar sign in the title post is intentional, of course.) This has been one of my favorite list items so far!  I knew Atlas Shrugged was a classic and everything, but I never had any desire to read it...probably because it's over 1,000 pages long.  Go figure.  When you read a description of it, it sounds like the most boring plotline imaginable.  A railroad executive?  Corporate America?  Overreaching government?  1,000 PAGES?!  (You can see why it took me so long to begin reading it.)  Imagine my surprise when it took about .2 seconds for the story to become incredibly engaging.  Out of the entire behemoth of the book, there was only one section of about 30 pages that had me anxious to skip ahead to the more "exciting" parts I knew were coming, and even those 30 pages were worth reading. Besides being a wonderfully well-written and appealing story, the philosophy is fascinating!  It's almost impossible to walk away fro...
3 comments
Read more

#13 - take Ricky to NYC (day 2)

DAY 2 - TUESDAY, MAY 15TH After a surprisingly restful night of sleep (despite being woken up at 7:00 by boys yelling in German in the hallway and the bathroom door that sounded like a trumpeting elephant when opened--I didn't even know that was possible), Ricky and I left the hostel at 9:00 or so to try and get standby tickets for "Death of a Salesman."  The box office doesn't open until 10:00, so if we're in line by 9:30, we'll be good, right?  Wrong.  All the info I found online about standby tickets said the non-musical shows were pretty easy to get tickets for, and you didn't have to show up super early, etc.  Well, apparently Phillip Seymour Hoffman is more popular than I anticipated, because all the standby tickets were sold out by the time we showed up.  In fact, the ticket attendant told Ricky they had been sold out since 7:00.  IN THE MORNING.  He said the line started at 5:00.  I laughed in Ricky's face when he passed the informati...
4 comments
Read more